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The Fine Line
There is a saying about a fine line between love and hate.
Living the Cheapskates way there is a fine line too: a fine line between Contented Cheapskate and Sad Skinflint.
Whether you choose to live the Cheapskates way out of necessity (sudden un-employment, huge debts, pandemic unemployment, natural disaster etc.) or to have the cash to do the things that are important to you, the line has to be drawn: just how far can you go without becoming a mean, sad skinflint?
For me not buying takeaway food on a regular basis freed up money for music lessons for Hannah. The boys could play their sports because we chose to recycle clothes and buy from garage sales and op shops before we resorted to paying retail. This freed up the cash needed to pay for sports fees and other activities and we had a contented family.
But I would feel like a Sad Skinflint if I didn't buy the brand of tea and coffee I enjoy to just save a couple of dollars. Instead, I wait for them to go on sale and then use the grocery slush fund to stock up, I never pay the regular supermarket price and I am a Contented Cheapskate.
By using generic sugar, flour, custard powder, bi-carb soda, coconut and icing sugar I have the cash to buy the coffee I like. We don't notice any difference in the end result of my baking, we are not missing out on any treats and I am able to truly enjoy good coffee.
In our quest to live the Cheapskates way sometimes we go to far. There is no purpose in going without something you need, enjoy or even want, if you can afford, it just to not spend money.
We cut back on things we don't particularly care about so that we can have the things that are important to us. There have been times when I've gone too far (a rissole recipe using just breadcrusts, herbs and water springs to mind) and the exercise has ended up causing us to be unhappy.
Using the breadcrusts and herbs along with some chopped tomato, a grated onion and an egg to make a Mock Chicken however saved us some money, used up leftover crusts and it was delicious with gravy and baked vegetables.
With things like electricity, gas, water, telephone, internet and petrol trim them little by little until you find that you need more, then ease the trimming just a bit (much like you do to find your ideal grocery budget). You've found your fine line and by easing back a bit you are on the Contented Cheapskate side.
With clothing, shoes and so on you can work out exactly what you need to maintain a comfortable wardrobe. Add a couple of spare outfits (for those times the washing hasn't dried or you just plain ran out of time to do it) and you'll be on the Contented Cheapskate side.
Not giving yourself enough clothing will end up costing you money. You'll be washing more often, perhaps having to resort to using the dryer, and your clothes will be wearing out and looking old much faster. This is the Sad Skinflint side of the line.
In all things, trimming a little, gradually, lets you find exactly where you want to be in your Cheapskates lifestyle, and when you are contented with where you are you'll find saving money, time and energy easy.
Living the Cheapskates way there is a fine line too: a fine line between Contented Cheapskate and Sad Skinflint.
Whether you choose to live the Cheapskates way out of necessity (sudden un-employment, huge debts, pandemic unemployment, natural disaster etc.) or to have the cash to do the things that are important to you, the line has to be drawn: just how far can you go without becoming a mean, sad skinflint?
For me not buying takeaway food on a regular basis freed up money for music lessons for Hannah. The boys could play their sports because we chose to recycle clothes and buy from garage sales and op shops before we resorted to paying retail. This freed up the cash needed to pay for sports fees and other activities and we had a contented family.
But I would feel like a Sad Skinflint if I didn't buy the brand of tea and coffee I enjoy to just save a couple of dollars. Instead, I wait for them to go on sale and then use the grocery slush fund to stock up, I never pay the regular supermarket price and I am a Contented Cheapskate.
By using generic sugar, flour, custard powder, bi-carb soda, coconut and icing sugar I have the cash to buy the coffee I like. We don't notice any difference in the end result of my baking, we are not missing out on any treats and I am able to truly enjoy good coffee.
In our quest to live the Cheapskates way sometimes we go to far. There is no purpose in going without something you need, enjoy or even want, if you can afford, it just to not spend money.
We cut back on things we don't particularly care about so that we can have the things that are important to us. There have been times when I've gone too far (a rissole recipe using just breadcrusts, herbs and water springs to mind) and the exercise has ended up causing us to be unhappy.
Using the breadcrusts and herbs along with some chopped tomato, a grated onion and an egg to make a Mock Chicken however saved us some money, used up leftover crusts and it was delicious with gravy and baked vegetables.
With things like electricity, gas, water, telephone, internet and petrol trim them little by little until you find that you need more, then ease the trimming just a bit (much like you do to find your ideal grocery budget). You've found your fine line and by easing back a bit you are on the Contented Cheapskate side.
With clothing, shoes and so on you can work out exactly what you need to maintain a comfortable wardrobe. Add a couple of spare outfits (for those times the washing hasn't dried or you just plain ran out of time to do it) and you'll be on the Contented Cheapskate side.
Not giving yourself enough clothing will end up costing you money. You'll be washing more often, perhaps having to resort to using the dryer, and your clothes will be wearing out and looking old much faster. This is the Sad Skinflint side of the line.
In all things, trimming a little, gradually, lets you find exactly where you want to be in your Cheapskates lifestyle, and when you are contented with where you are you'll find saving money, time and energy easy.
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