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Just Say No!

22/6/2018

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One of the best things I learned to do is to say "no".

Being overwhelmed with things to do is not good for your health or your budget. When you are flat out is when you spend without thinking, opt for takeaway because it's easier and go for convenience over price and health.

Of course there are times when that's OK. But being flat out because you didn't want to hurt someone's feelings or appear impolite is a problem.

Learn to say no.

You don't need to offer an explanation; in fact, if you do, you are leaving yourself open to be offered an alternative.

Just say NO! - and then change the subject.

This was first posted on Debt Free, Cashed Up and Laughing
1 Comment
Delaney Avenel
12/5/2021 03:19:02 pm

It came as such a relief when I learned to say "No" years ago. Simply "No" or No, thank you" is all that's needed.

As Cath said, we leave ourselves open to alternatives being offered when we proffer an explanation.

Also, think about the times when you've been given (or have made one yourself) a convoluted explanation as to why you "can't" do something. Generally, the person sounds less credible.

If you really must add something to your no, just try "I've other plans". Totally honest.

Think of people you admire, do they offer explanations? No. They're totally ok with saying no or no thank you. It might take some practice but it's worth the effort!

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